Elaine describes her visits to Sitima

Missionary work had always been an aspiration of mine, but circumstances meant that it was something I never had the opportunity to pursue. The chance to volunteer with N4BW came relatively late in life, after almost 20 years of retirement. Nevertheless, I was determined not to let the opportunity pass me by.

My first visit was in August 2025 with Chris and Jayde, when we worked in Matunduzi School, painting classroom walls, window frames, blackboards and varnishing new benches. I also worked with the Women’s Group, armed with crochet hooks and a suitcase full of wool. I taught them to crochet and was amazed at how quickly they learned, willingly helped each other and shared the wool. Some of the ladies proudly showed me their works of art on my second visit.

The visit in June this year (2026) was slightly less physical. I spent time sewing bags with the women, sharing conversation, singing and dancing. I was reminded that relationships are just as important as practical help.

One of the highlights was witnessing members of the group receive small business loans made possible through generous donations. Their carefully prepared business plans included selling rice, maize, cooking oil, fish and firewood. These were not gifts but opportunities to build independence. Each agreement was signed between the participants, Sr Felister and N4BW, and regular reports are received on the repayments. As the money is repaid, it will enable other members of the group to become more independent. I also observed the Village Bank in operation. Each contribution was discussed and carefully recorded.  A community investing in its own future – a very serious business!

I spent time with the Girls’ Empowerment Group, where young women who had left school were learning tailoring skills, to enable them to earn a living and support their families. They were busy making skirts. N4BW provided funds for an additional sewing machine, which can be used by both groups as well as extra fabric so the current students and future cohorts will continue to benefit. They have since moved on to make dresses and reports on their progress are received from Sr Felister.

As June is part of the colder season in Malawi, I suggested supporting the elderly members of the Parish, purchasing blankets. With Marcin’s invaluable help, this became a reality and we held a simple ceremony at the Mission, presenting blankets and biscuits with prayer and singing. The remaining blankets were to be distributed to the more distant members of the community at a later date.

After both visits I was reminded that Mission is not only about what we give but what we receive and I am grateful to the people of Sitima for being so warm and welcoming and to N4BW for giving me the opportunity to fulfil my dream, even though it has come late in life. Thank you all.